TRAUMA RESOURCES
Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A guide and map for recovering from childhood trauma – Pete Walker (VERY PRACTICAL BOOK. RECOMMENDED!)
Coping with Trauma-Related Dissociation: Skills Training for Patients and Therapists (for Anxious attachments styles)
Healing Developmental Trauma – Laurence Heller
The Body Keeps The Score – Bessel van der Kolk
Learn Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT tapping) to soothe yourself
ATTACHMENT RESOURCES
Love Sense – Dr. Sue Johnson
Attached – Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Wired For Love – Stan Tatkin
Your Brain on Love (audiobook) – Stan Tatkin
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work – John Gottman
How We Love – Milan and Kay Yerkovich
Anxious to Please: 7 Revolutionary Practices for the Chronically Nice – James Rapson (particularly for Chameleons)
BOOKS ABOUT COMMUNICATION
Nonviolent Communication – Marshall Rosenberg
Never Split The Difference – Chris Voss (FBI Kidnapping Negotiator)